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Relationship Wellness

Meet Desiree Spierings

With over 20 years of experience in the field, I am a leading Relationship Counsellor and Sex Therapist.

Relationship Wellness aims to provide you with knowledge, understanding and practical tips, In order to grow into an even better you, build even better relationships and develop even better intimacy.

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‘Every relationship can encounter difficulties, even the very best ones, and this is nothing to be ashamed of.’

– Desiree Spierings –


Better at Relationships

Are you ready to improve your relationship, but not sure where to start? Do you want to make your relationship EVEN BETTER?

After working as a relationship therapist, and a marriage counsellor for over 20 years, I’ve put together a 5-module, 21-video-session program, to help you make the right choices, and understand what steps to take!

Safeguard your relationship by enhancing emotional connection, teamwork, communication, resilience and physical intimacy

Elevate your emotional connection by introducing play and joy into your relationship, by loving your partner in their preferred way, and by strengthening your bond

Be the best possible team by solidifying your commitment, establishing a clear shared life vision, improving your ability to share the household load fairly, and by becoming an expert on your partner

Enhance your communication by applying effective communication skills when bringing up challenging topics, by establishing win-win solutions, by finding compromises that work for both, and by strengthening your active listening skills

Boost resilience through apologizing and forgiveness, by strengthening your couple’s bubble, earning trust, and letting go of anger and resentment

Keep your sexual spark alive and spice things up in the bedroom by getting into a natural flow that works for both and by fulfilling each other’s most intimate needs and desires

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